Destiny is like a ubiquitous cloud .

 The sanskrit word "Karm "means action and we do believe that a persons action determines his destiny.According to our Vedas, if we sow good, we will reap goodness, if we sow evil, we reap evil. So remember ,if you do good deeds, you are bound to derive pleasure and happiness.

But there are people not all but few who in the modes of passion, ignorance perform Vikarma. they tend to forget the defination of Karma and they do not care for anything. People simply act unlawfully, not considering the results of their lives.

Each human life is a chain in an ongoing, unfoldingof events, of destiny and karma that determines future lives. Each individual creates his life out of beliefs one holds and the choices he makes. His abilities determine whether a person will succeed  or fail in his endevour.

Every moment we have to create a new future by taking a new path , by making new promises..If you are going through a bad time, learn to fight back, be positive and yes don't console youserf by telling -" Its all destiny", nothing in our control eevrything god has decided, so whether we want it or not , it doesn't matter..' 

You got to remember that, don't get too downhearted, as things are bound to change.All you've gotta do is wear a smile and you will find,your sun will shine.You should never lose sight of your goal.

Oahu thru my eyes...

When most people think about a vacation like Hawaii, the first things they think of are enjoying tropical beaches and lush landscapes. The next thing they might think is "But I can't afford it." However, a Hawaii vacation is affordable than most people think , thanks to the many deals that are available.....

So your next dream destination should be Oahu..

Oahu is one of the most favourite family holiday. It has tropical weather, famous white sand beaches, mountains, fascinating volcanoes and the Pacific culture.The famous Waikiki beach.

Oahu is home to around 90,000 people.The city of Honolulu is the state capital . It has deepwater marine port. Well known places of Oahu include Waikiki, Pearl Harbour, Diamond Head, Hanuma Bay, Kailua Bay, North Shore.

Hawaii weather can vary depending on the place where you 're staying.You would find sunny baech on Oahu and a few miles away in Manoa , you would find it rainy.Usually, the day time temperatures can have a range of 27C during the winter time, 31C in the summer time.

Choose one of the tropical cruises to Hawaii and enjoy cruising around the islands.Cruise ships are the ultimate in luxury with the staterooms and suites, some of which have ocean views and balconies.

Manoa Water fall Hike will fulfill all of your fantasies about Hawaii'sgiant ferns, cascading tropical waterfalls, picturesque streams and unique species that can be found nowhere else on Earth.

You will find a very wide selection of hotels and vacation rentals when you visit Oahu, from situated near the ocean. All offer a great place to relax.

Oahu offers all of the amenities and the atmosphere that one might expect. Choosing an Oahu vacation will provide you with all of the comforts of home as well as a family friendly vacation.

I bet, you will fall in love with place as i did . I stayed in Honululu for 6 months after my marriage and believe me those 6 months has been the best secs/mins/hours/days/weeks/months/and year of my LIFE ...........

What next???

Most of the times in life we tend to ask this question. What next? After a moment of pondering we go out for an unknown way. The choice is more by compulsion than by motivation. And people who do that and come up with an ace are known as winners. While others who wallow in their past are losers and that too big time ones. So we should focus our attentions towards the future and still should go on even if it seems dark in the first evaluation. It might be that there is light at the end of the very dark tunnel called life. Whenever they are at a life-twisting, idea-shattering bend of life, each human being behaves very differently and like finger prints, or retina-scans, the reactions themselves always become a hallmark of that human being

Domestic Violence

Battered Woman Syndrome (BWS) is a collection of psychological symptoms, often considered a subcategory of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and can be measured by a trained mental health professional..BWS is a psychological reaction that can be expected to occur in normal people who are exposed to repeated trauma, such as family violence. It includes at least three groups of symptoms that assist the mind and body in preparing to defend against threats. Psychologists call it the "fight or flight" responseVery few individuals would become involved in a relationship they knew to be violent. Domestic violence has subtle origins. What starts out as love, courtship and concern, may turn into domination, forced adherence to rigid sex roles and obsessive jealousy. Victims are not masochists.Abusers often experience dramatic mood swings of highs and lows. They may be loving one minute, and spiteful and cruel the next. Abusers are frequently characterized by those outside the home as generous, caring, and good, and behave drastically differently in their home environment. Perpetrators of domestic violence are rarely violent to those outside of their domicile.