Thursday, April 30, 2009

What next???

Most of the times in life we tend to ask this question. What next? After a moment of pondering we go out for an unknown way. The choice is more by compulsion than by motivation. And people who do that and come up with an ace are known as winners. While others who wallow in their past are losers and that too big time ones. So we should focus our attentions towards the future and still should go on even if it seems dark in the first evaluation. It might be that there is light at the end of the very dark tunnel called life. Whenever they are at a life-twisting, idea-shattering bend of life, each human being behaves very differently and like finger prints, or retina-scans, the reactions themselves always become a hallmark of that human being

Domestic Violence

Battered Woman Syndrome (BWS) is a collection of psychological symptoms, often considered a subcategory of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and can be measured by a trained mental health professional..BWS is a psychological reaction that can be expected to occur in normal people who are exposed to repeated trauma, such as family violence. It includes at least three groups of symptoms that assist the mind and body in preparing to defend against threats. Psychologists call it the "fight or flight" responseVery few individuals would become involved in a relationship they knew to be violent. Domestic violence has subtle origins. What starts out as love, courtship and concern, may turn into domination, forced adherence to rigid sex roles and obsessive jealousy. Victims are not masochists.Abusers often experience dramatic mood swings of highs and lows. They may be loving one minute, and spiteful and cruel the next. Abusers are frequently characterized by those outside the home as generous, caring, and good, and behave drastically differently in their home environment. Perpetrators of domestic violence are rarely violent to those outside of their domicile.